When kids aren't caring enough towards their parents, people say so many things "unhone tumhe janam diya h, bada kiya hai, tumhari zaruraton ko poora kiya hai, ab tumhe bhi unka khayal rakhna chahiye, its your duty" , "you should not disrespect your parents" , "maa-baap bhagwan ke samaan hote hai, unka aadar karo" , "unke saath pyaar se raho", "maa-baap ke charno me swarg hai" etc etc etc... if situation goes out of hand, parents drag their own children to courts to sort out the issues..but what if the parents do the same things to their children??? what if they don't care for their children? what if they are indifferent towards their children? what if they crush their dreams?? what if they don't have enough time for them to talk, to celebrate their birthdays, festivals or any other occasion?? where are these people then?? why don't they say anything to the parents?? why do they still support the parents and tell us that whatever they are doing is for our good?? why does no one ever listen to us?? why do we have to do everything according to their wish? why do they think that we are always wrong even when we are adult and are legally able to take and be responsible for our own decisions?? they deprive us of all the things and name it as protectiveness, care and love?? And when we tell them that they are doing wrong, they scold us and say we are manner less and disrespectful towards them...but most importantly how can parents love their child when they don't even love each other?? what should the child do in such cases?? or rather what can a person do apart from crying silently till he sleeps..or wiping away his tears, putting up a fake smile and pretending that everything is fine though deep down he knows nothing is fine and it will never be fine...
does growing up means being deprived of the small small happiness?? does it mean being deprived of one's parents love and care?? does growing up means to break people's hearts and not even caring to mend it??
if this is called growing up, then i wish no one ever grows up...
we just need a little love, a little care, a little understanding and a little support from our parents..is this too much to ask for??
"One love - for the mother's pride
One love - for the times we cried
One love - gotta stay alive
I will survive"
just felt the lyrics to be apt so wrote it down..
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