Love is a beautiful feeling....a feeling that binds a person with each other....our relation with our parents, siblings, friends all represent the love we have for them...but with the passage of time we get so busy with our lives that we begin to take all these relations for granted... we assume that no matter what we do, our parents or friends will forgive us, they would still love us as before...we are so afraid to say "i love you" to a person....that we let ourselves lose him/her but we cant gather the courage to tell them how we actually feel...
Many a times relations break just because a person is not able to express his feelings....but my question is if you can express your anger then why cant you express your love? When we don't even think once before getting angry on someone then why do we think a thousand times before proposing someone? The fear of rejection is so strong that we let that person go away from us when we know that we can make them stay with us forever...why b just a friend when you can be more than that? Stop thinking, its a do or die situation...if you love them go n tell them before its too late....otherwise it would hurt when you see them with someone else...hearts are broken when words are left unspoken....so gather all your courage and tell them.....there's nothing to loose or gain, its okay if they reject, for, at least you tried....you wont spend the rest of your life regretting n thinking "kaash maine ek baar use apni feelings batayi hoti...."
If you have a special person in your life right now, may it be your mom, dad, bro, sis, girlfriend, boyfriend, wife, husband or whoever, whom you love more than your life..go and tell them that you love them...right now....who knows they might b waiting to hear that from you... now if you r thinking that you'll say it later on or may be tomorrow, think again, tomorrow may never come....don't ever loose an opportunity to tell someone how much they matter to you.....life is quite uncertain...its better to do it today rather than regretting it tomorrow...!!
Love is like magic..its not everyday that you find a person who has the power to make you fall in love...so when that person comes into your life, don't ever let him/her go...give reasons to make them stay rather than letting them go away....life is short, actually very short...at least try to live this time to the maximum extent...don't take anyone for granted, if they are there with you today, its not a guarantee that they will be there for you forever...we are humans , we all want someone to make us feel special or at least acknowledge the fact that we care for them and love them...
Here is a small extract i read somewhere:
Many a times relations break just because a person is not able to express his feelings....but my question is if you can express your anger then why cant you express your love? When we don't even think once before getting angry on someone then why do we think a thousand times before proposing someone? The fear of rejection is so strong that we let that person go away from us when we know that we can make them stay with us forever...why b just a friend when you can be more than that? Stop thinking, its a do or die situation...if you love them go n tell them before its too late....otherwise it would hurt when you see them with someone else...hearts are broken when words are left unspoken....so gather all your courage and tell them.....there's nothing to loose or gain, its okay if they reject, for, at least you tried....you wont spend the rest of your life regretting n thinking "kaash maine ek baar use apni feelings batayi hoti...."
If you have a special person in your life right now, may it be your mom, dad, bro, sis, girlfriend, boyfriend, wife, husband or whoever, whom you love more than your life..go and tell them that you love them...right now....who knows they might b waiting to hear that from you... now if you r thinking that you'll say it later on or may be tomorrow, think again, tomorrow may never come....don't ever loose an opportunity to tell someone how much they matter to you.....life is quite uncertain...its better to do it today rather than regretting it tomorrow...!!
Love is like magic..its not everyday that you find a person who has the power to make you fall in love...so when that person comes into your life, don't ever let him/her go...give reasons to make them stay rather than letting them go away....life is short, actually very short...at least try to live this time to the maximum extent...don't take anyone for granted, if they are there with you today, its not a guarantee that they will be there for you forever...we are humans , we all want someone to make us feel special or at least acknowledge the fact that we care for them and love them...
Here is a small extract i read somewhere:
HE:
I wait everyday till 8 in d office even if there is no work. All my team mates ask of y; how can I tell them that I don't wait for any personal or official work but the only reason why i wait is a 'girl' in my 8pm bus. Truly speaking, I like her. She might not be 1 of those who look like ash or kareena but she is cute and simple and that's the reason i like her. For past 6 months I've been staring at her in bus. When i get into bus somehow my eyes search the whole bus for her glimpse. I didn't ever had any girlfriend. Girls prefer tall-dark-handsome guys which I'm not. I don't want to jump to any relation i just want friendship. I just want to talk to her. I know her name, for I had seen her ID card 1 day but i don't have guts to talk to her. I even don't know if she knows me even by face. I know, no one can help me here but i simply have no guts. At least someone probably a common friend might introduce us. My roommate told me to approach her & get introduced to her all by myself. Its not that easy; this is not a college, what if she complains to others? No, I can't take this risk. Someone else better introduce her to me. God, can u help me please?
SHE:
My cousin told me to show some sign to him that I am OK in having friendship with him. I think he is afraid to come forward. I'll give him a good friendly smile tomorrow, when he gets into bus. I hope he understands & decrypts my signal..God, can u please help him?
GOD:
Now should I come into this picture? Both these humans are acting as if they are in a big problem. Although not for me, I had made life so simple for you, just added a bit of emotions there & see how complex you have made it. I won't interfere here. I have created this world with some fixed rules and i can't break my own rules thereby disrupting the balance of this whole system....
So did you learn anything from this?? Did you notice how a little thing breaks many hearts? Everything is in your hands....don't take anyone for granted...don't let go someone so easily..may b that person is the only thing for which you waited for your whole life....go n grab the opportunity n tell them that you love them......and if you are not happy with a person, let him go...You only get one life to live. Don't waste it with someone you're not happy with!! Move on and find the one who makes you happy. Ask those about the best feeling when they fall in love, ask those about the hurt when they fall apart...you'll know what it feels like...so what are you waiting for?? Express your feeling before its too late......!!

I love her ...
ReplyDeleteI know she love me as well
We know each other very well .. We dont need words to speak ..she is the one who made me realise that silence does speaks..I agree it wont happen with everyone..u hardly find a person or a partner like that ..with whum your frequency and wavelenght matches..
I know she loves me ...I know she can read my my mind my eyes my feel ...i know that she understud long back that i wanna be with her ..my entire life...She does know that ..
BUT
I cant propose her..
I am very comfortable and happy now .. I am ina stage where I need to ask and she will agree and we can get marry ..N i am waiting for a chance...
But though inside I know that this marriage is not gonna happen and if its gona happn its really hard to last...
For that reason ...she might say a NO..
I FEEL this feel is better where e both know that we are more than friends for each other...Than to be a rejected GUY...just bcos of the society ...
Just bcos I feel that i love her so much that I am afraid that I wud loose a friend who knows that her friend knows , he cant marry her ...
hmmmm.... ( ( u might read the last sentence thrice but she will understand in once ) thats the difference dear )
there will be a time when the relation becomes so transparent.. u dont need words....
Sree
well m speechless!! seriously I dunno what to say..u are right that u hardly find a partner like this...it is truly magical..
ReplyDeletei feel that you are really lucky to get such a person in your life..dunno y u said that u cant marry & if u get married it wont last....but i guess that's what you call "life"...
but as long as you guys are happy by remaining friends, society's opinion doesn't matter...its your life and u have the right to live it your way..
god bless you guys...!!